Just in time for your long holiday weekend, here’s an all new #DearSheDatesSavvy! Dear She Dates Savvy is where I answer your dating and relationship questions, and then share my reply with the masses in an effort to help everyone date smarter!
You can’t make him have ambition.
And if ambition, drive and hustle are all qualities you are seeking in a man...then he’s not the one.
And don’t get so caught up on whether or not he’s a GOOD guy or not...he’s a GOOD GUY. But not a good guy for YOU!
HER FOLLOW UP QUESTION:
Thanks should I tell when he asks why we can't move forward?
MY 2ND REPLY:
That you have realized that you two have different levels of ambition and you’re seeking more in your next serious relationship. And be firm in your answer bc he will bring up all his great qualities, and then you’ll waffle and say to yourself “well, he is a good guy, blah, blah, blah...” and then spend the next 3 years resentful towards him when all you had to do was be firm in your desired qualities in a mate.